50 Cheap Valentine’s Day
1. Create an indoor picnic with available props, i.e., picnic tablecloth, paper goods.
2. Decorate a unique-looking jar or box with craft items. Write numerous love notes on small pieces of paper and fill the jar with them.
3. Make a framed group of photos that put your relationship in chronological order of events, by months or years (depending on how long you’ve been together).
4. There are many local and national Valentine’s Day giveaway contests with great prizes. Enter as many as you can and maybe you’ll get lucky.
5. Burn a CD with songs that make you think of your sweetheart, and give it to him/her.
6. For couples with children, get them involved in an all-family fun Valentine’s Day dinner at home. Mom can prepare a dessert for two and light the candles while dad puts the kids to bed.
7. Leave a note on your mate’s pillow expressing how special you think he/she is.
8. Create a favorite drink together. Try all kinds of ingredients. Enjoy taste-testing.
9. Buy two champagne flutes for use on Valentine’s Day only to annually toast your love. Keep them in a visible location as a year-round reminder of how special you are to each other.
10. Create an at-home spa day for your mate. Deliver the gift in a basket filled with inexpensive candles, bubble bath, rose petals, facial mask and scrub.
11. Celebrate with a day full of low-cost activities you both enjoy doing (depending upon your location and weather). Do something with your significant other that he/she rarely has time to do, but loves.
12. Take a 2-hour, one-time salsa or tango dancing lesson together. Or, identify some other interest you share and find a place to give you one-time extended lesson on Valentine’s Day.
13. Gals…Make the entire day full of his favorites: the breakfast of his dreams, the dinner of his dreams, TV that is his favorite, his music, etc. Don’t say anything about it, surprise him all day long.
14. Take the person you love to experience something spectacular in nature: a sunset, a sunrise, the calm of the beach, share an evening walk gazing at the moon.
15. Choose specialty foods, such as wine, cheese, fresh bread/dessert from a favorite bakery. Enjoy in front of your warm, toasty fireplace.
16. Give each other long-lingering back rubs or head-to-toe body massages. Invest in luxurious lotion or oils.
17. Watch an old movie at home together, with popcorn and soft drinks and candy – movie-theater style.
18. Share a scrumptious dessert and latté at a local patisserie or bakery.
19. Pick a few household chores your Valentine usually does and surprise them by doing it before they get a chance, i.e., making the bed.
20. Walk around a favorite part of town, stopping at a nice locale for a glass of wine and appetizers.
21. On Valentine’s Day, place three pair of sexy undies on your bed and let your mate pick out which one you should wear. It’s your secret!
22. Write a “Top 10 Reasons Why I Love You” list.
23. If Valentine’s Day is on Saturday, and you’re a member of a wholesale club (like Sam’s or Costco) have fun eating all the free samples! Then fill in any empty holes left in your stomach by going out to lunch. (That way you won’t spend a lot of money at a restaurant!)
24. What’s a new activity you’ve both wanted to try that’s low cost? Do it. Or, how can you creatively modify it to make it low cost? Do it.
25. Guys…If you want to cook dinner, remember, she doesn’t care what you make. Be imaginative and set the table special.
26. Guys or Gals…When you make that special dinner…Just like when you go to a fancy event and a “dinner menu” is put on each plate describing each food item, do something similar. For example, on your menu, write “Spaghetti & Meatballs, made with passion to be with YOU.” Don’t forget to give your “event” or “restaurant” a name at the top of the menu.
27. Make a simple dinner at home, then go out dancing or to listen to live music at a jazz club.
28. Play a sport together that you haven’t played in awhile, or that you rarely get a chance to enjoy. Before you start, determine what the “winner” gets (making it something to do with caring, loving, etc.).
29. Text a romantic message at a time of day when you know things get hectic.
30. Present your Valentine IOU coupons: I will make dinner; I will do the laundry; I will take care of the kids one day a month for the next year; I will clean the kitchen for a week; I will serve you breakfast in bed.
31. Together, go “shopping” at a sex-toy store without spending any money. It’ll give you ideas and get you “in the mood.”
32. The tough economy has lured many upscale restaurants to have high-end early bird specials. Find out what’s available in your area.
33. Some volunteer fire departments use holiday fauna to create flower and rose bouquets as a fund-raiser. Prices are reasonable; just get there early.
34. If she loves chocolate…Take her on a chocolates tour.
35. Use a bar of soap to draft a love note on your bathroom mirror. Or, if you shower first, write a love note to your sweetheart in the steam on the mirror.
36. Write “I love you because….” notes and insert them into balloons. Blow up the balloons, and spread the balloons throughout your bedroom for your Valentine to pop and capture each message.
37. Many drug stores with photo departments offer a variety of Valentine’s Day specials to make gifts from photographs. Use a good picture of the two of you together.
38. Make homemade chocolate-covered strawberries.
39. Guys…If you want to order flowers for your gal, supermarket florists are generally half the price of the stand-alone or on-line stores, but the trick to for seeing real savings is to order two weeks or more in advance and pay for the flowers up front.
40. Plan a scavenger hunt. Write clues and place them in envelopes, and place the envelopes around town. Make the final clue a doozey of a destination.
41. Get a small radio and take your partner dancing at a romantic hideaway, such as the woods or riverfront or ocean.
42. Use fabric paint to decorate a Valentine’s Day pillowcase for your loved one.
43. What did you do on your very first date? Repeat it.
44. Create a year-long calendar with photos of just the two of you above (top page) each month. Office supply stores will insert the spiral/binding for you.
45. Have a progressive dinner. If you’re single, appetizers at his place. Entrée at her place. Use your imagination to set locations!
46. Write new “updated” wedding vows, both serious and humorous, and share them with each other over a glass of wine in a candlelit room.
48. Have a 15-minute kissing session and try some new ways and places to kiss.
49. If you don’t have a special sweetheart, focus on bringing a smile or laughter to everyone you come in contact with on Valentine’s Day.
50. What are your mate’s quirks and habits that irk you? Don’t nag about any of them the entire day.
Sheryl Kurland is the author of "Everlasting Matrimony: Pearls Of Wisdom From Couples Married 50 Years Or More," (www.EverlastingMatrimony.com) for which she interviewed 75 couples -- husband and wives separately. In the book, these "real-life" relationship experts reveal the secrets to long-lasting love.
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